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First Week of December

After a couple dates last week, I am looking forward to this week because the quality of women I have dates with are a lot higher.

Tonight I’m hanging out with my best female friend but we’re just friends and nothing has ever happened between us. I’m ok with this.

Tomorrow night I will be going to a concert with my buddy where I intend on picking up some girls who already have similar music taste to me because we are at the same show.

Wednesday night I have a date with a cute blonde girl who could have some potential off match.com.

Thursday night I have a date with a cute red head girl who isn’t as cute as the blonde but could also have a little bit of potential.

Both girls I’ve met off match.com and these are both first dates. The blonde has more true beauty but probably could use some time in the gym but that’s something you can live with. I think of it has an investment that needs a little TLC. The red head doesn’t quite have that natural beauty but probably needs a little less time in the gym. Realistically most people can benefit from going to the gym.

I also in talks to hang out with a woman 3 years older then me and she might actually be the best looking of all the match.com girls. We’ve had a few back and forths and it’s just a matter of setting up a date. I also might have a date with another match.com girl but she is definitely the least attractive of all 4 girls. Dates are fun but I would love to find a great girl that I actually like.

UG Date

My long awaited encounter with the unattractive girl finally took place last night. I got to the bar before she did and started throwing a few Guinness back to ease the pain of her face. I probably shouldn’t have done this on an empty stomach. I’ve met a few new people at the bar once again and she arrives at 7:30 pm.

We sit behind the seats at the bar and begin to talk and she starts right away with the touching. Every opportunity she gets she puts her hand on my leg, my arm, wherever she can find. I’m getting pretty wasted and I tell her I want to close out and get some food and go back to my place. I know she clearly wants me so I figure I should leave before blacking out and not being able to set up to the plate when needed. I close out my tab of 4 beers for me 1 beer for her and she still paid half the bill. I tell her that I’m leaving because I closed out and I’m done with my beer and she’s still nursing her second one. She promptly gets me another Guinness which has to be my last one.

I finish it really quickly because I really want to get the hell out of there, as I already have my arm around her and inside her shirt caressing the side of her. Touching it slowly to turn her on and she feels it. We start making out at the bar and it’s like 9 pm and everyone is there watching the game. I didn’t want to go all out because this is my local bar and I’m there 5 times a week. We kiss on and off while she keeps slipping me her tongue. I end up finishing her beer because it would take her forever and I wanted to leave and get her in bed. This is where it gets weird.

We leave holding hands and I promptly sign to the bartender that I’m going to try and nail this girl so we both get a good laugh out of it. We walk to the corner a block away from my apartment where she claims she’s going home. She wants me to walk her to the subway which I refuse to do because I’m up the block from my apt and the subway is a 15 minute, one way. It just isn’t practical! We argue and she’s upset that I refuse to do that much for her because she has an hour subway ride to her place. We make out some more as the sexual tension was clearly there.

I tell her I’m going home. She and I walk in opposite directions and I call my buddy to tell him what went down. My call is interrupted by someone as it’s her calling, telling me she can’t believe I actually left and that she’s walking back to me but I’m already just in front of my place so I tell her she needs to come down here and I’m not walking back to our previous corner. She abides but continues to whine that I didn’t walk her to the subway. I let her know my apartment is right there and she should come and take a look and then leave since she’s that close.

We walk in and my roommate is sitting on my couch so I go into my room to seal the deal but she keeps on going on about this subway shit. I lie down on my bed and tell her to have a seat which she does eventually at my feet. She gets up and then I tell her to sit again this time she sits closer to my head so I kiss her and try to turn her on again but she’s still pissed about the subway thing. We make out some more and I ask her to lay down so we can cuddle but she refuses. I tell her I’m laying here and she can leave if she wants.

She gets up and leaves saying, “I assume you won’t walk me to your door”. Which I don’t and she’s gone.

This girl had a decent body, big nose and beady eyes but I still wanted to fuck her. She was all over me but I guess she didn’t want to fuck on the first date but made a bet which I won at the bar to buy me dinner next time, her way of getting a second date. I’m not quite sure I want a second date but maybe I’ll invite her over for a movie and take out and try to fuck the hell out of her then. It was a good experience and I got a good make out session.

Easy Sex from the Ugly Girl?

I’ve posted several times about the ugly girl that wants to hang out with me so badly and who I can clearly fuck tomorrow night if I so choose. Well I’ve never met her and we’ve exchanged many many e-mails back and forth. I’ve basically said that I’m going to attempt to fuck her tomorrow night and she bought right into it.

UG: Well try not to be out drinking too late and get some rest tonight. You can continue your drunken debauchery with me tomorrow night.

NYCGeek: Are you going to get me drunk and take advantage of me?

UG: A lady never tells.

NYCGeek: I got to tell the bartenders to watch out for me tomorrow night unless you’re planning on cooking me breakfast friday morning.

UG: Well that depends….what do you have in your pantry? Haha.

NYCGeek: Eggs. How’s your omelette skills?

UG: Pretty good actually.

NYCGeek: Will you serve it to me in bed? Cause that’s important.

UG: Hmm, we’ll see how things go.

All Good Things Must End

After being excited about 3 confirmed dates and 1 night of hanging out with my roommate, I should learn to be humble.

After telling everyone in sight about all this attention I’m getting from the opposite sex, I should learn to be humble.

After my roommate cancelled on me last night and tonight’s date chose the Christmas tree lighting at Rockefeller Center over me. I’ve been humbled.

I went to the bar alone last night and ended up hanging out with a few regulars who I’ve becoming bar friends with. There was a gorgeous blonde girl and the most stunning red head girl (two friends) with these douche looking guys, story of my life. Their company and my anxiety of talking to women made sure I just stared at them and thought to myself how gorgeous these two girls were. Also, why can’t I talk to a girl like that and date her? I bet I’d show her the time of her life, both mentally and physically. I didn’t hang out long enough to see the bi-girls go at it but they were with two guys.

Another “lunch cutie” but this time it was mid-morning meeting. This girl was not married probably makes good money and probably needs a good fucking. She also seemed real nervous and geeky so I bet if you met her in the bar she’s sipping on her wine by herself eating a salad. Another missed opportunity.

Lunch Meeting Cutie

Working in finance I have the opportunity to meet lots of successful young women who take care of themselves aka they’re hot. There is something about intelligent women who are successful that you know are likely deprived of sex. Today I had the pleasure of having an amazing meal at UBS with 5 other people, one of which was a cute girl. All I could think about is taking her into another conference and banging the hell out of her while she screams about the credit crunch problems and the possibility of a global recession.

Obviously this is inappropriate and nothing will come from this but it makes going to meetings all the more enjoyable. As much as I’ve talked about how much I love flexible women at yoga, I love intelligent women who are successful. I would stare at her beautiful lush lips as she tried to sell us on a structured debt mutual funds.

Here’s to you successful women of NYC!

Russian Roulette

The “business” related girl I met for drinks was cute. A Russian girl with gorgeous eyes but not as skinny as I normally like them but who am I to be picky. She was eating out of my hand the whole night with her eyes fixed on me, hanging on every word. I was set up with her to just give her advice on a young person trying to make their way into finance. The intentions were “business” but my co-worker clearly wanted me to do more.

I took her to my local spot where the regulars that I know made me sound even better than I could of made myself sound. The bartender messing with me in a friendly manner which shows her that I’m well liked. One patron yelling “you stolen all the attention of the most popular guy at the bar”. I probably could of pursued it further and I actually told her it’s getting late and she should get going on her commute while I grab a drink at the bar, we were at a table.

Nothing happened as I didn’t feel it was quite appropriate to make my move on the first encounter but now I can set up a more casual encounter for drinks and food. A real date. She sent me an e-mail at 2:30 am to thank me for chatting with her. No long term potential with this girl but she might be fun to get into bed. Just another good night under my belt as my evolution continues.

Busy Week

I’ve got a very busy week of going out. Here is my schedule

Monday – Drinks with a girl that is “business” related
Tuesday – Drinks with my hot roommate
Wednesday – Drinks with a cutie off match.com
Thursday – Drinks with an unattractive girl off another dating site

There is also one more potential match.com date in the oven.

Traffic

I hate NYC traffic and its unbearable when it rains and snows. My morning commute which is normally a 18-20 minute walk if the weather is shitty seems to take longer when I decide to take the bus just a few blocks to avoid getting wet. Why can’t these fucking traffic cops send someone to the intersection of 57th Street and 3rd Ave? They have them located in some worthless locations sometimes two cops standing on a corner pretending to do their jobs. I request just one at this intersection so that the bus isn’t waiting at one light without moving for 20 minutes.

Gridlocking has become a mess in this city since Bloomberg took over and I like the job he’s done as Mayor. Why can’t they just start ticketing people who gridlock and honk their horns? Is it really that difficult or are they just lazy?

I am not looking forward to when it starts to snow and I got walk slowly across snow and ice so that I don’t fall because it’s a lot quicker than using the bus. I am also all in favor of taxing people who want to come into Manhattan during business hours. It means more money for the city, less traffic and best of all it doesn’t apply to me. That may sound selfish but those assholes who sneak across red lights just to gridlock the intersection are the selfish ones. And they are the ones who will have to pay for those taxes so I’m all for fucking them.